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Farewell, Sweet Tulley

Tulley 2014In sadness and sympathy we let you know that Tulley crossed the Rainbow Bridge today.

Readers know him as the “mean dog” in our “Mean Dog” series, but Ed and Terri knew him as a dear friend and family member for a good many long and happy years.

Echo and Tulley, a few days ago.

He was a very good boy. He’ll be missed not only by his people, but by his pack. The family has suffered some hard losses of late. Our heartfelt condolences go out to them all.

The pack

Pictured left to right – Meg, Deja, Echo, Wyn, Tulley and Scout.

 

Tulley and Life’s Precious Moments – Living with Lymphoma

TULLEY and LIFE’S PRECIOUS MOMENTS

Tulley’s had a busy month. Our goal has always been to make sure that his good quality of life never wavers. We were thrilled when his most recent bloodwork was perfect. He was far from anemic so we decided to administer another round of chemo. As before a few days post chemo he had a couple days of feeling nauseous so we administered antiemetic medication, which helped. The days that he was inappetent I would mix meat flavored baby food with liquid Pediasure and feed him through an oral syringe. He never minded the shake; in fact I think he enjoyed it. We did find a brand of food and treats made by Orijen that he really likes so the cupboard is well stocked.

It was the last weekend in October when Tulley escorted Ed, Mirk, and me to Maryland for a sheepherding competition. We packed up the truck first thing in the morning and got on our way. We anticipated about a 4 hour drive and wanted to be south of the DC area before the evening rush hour. Other than the usual traffic delays the trip was pleasantly uneventful. As we neared our location and drove over the Chesapeake Bay Bridge it was a pleasure watching both dogs window surfing while taking in the ocean air. Tulley8

Our hotel was located in an area known as Kent Narrows. The Narrows channel barely separates Kent Island from the mainland. The region is rich with history, beautiful nature preserves and spectacular restaurants. We arrived late afternoon and checked into our room. Once the dogs were walked and the truck unloaded we headed across the street from our hotel to admire the beautiful water view and have a nice seafood dinner.

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The following morning we were up and out early, Mirk and I were entered to compete twice. The weather was fair, there was a little chill in the air in the morning but by the afternoon the sun came out so brilliant and warm. The trial was held at the beautiful Long Shot Farm in Church Hill, hosted by Sherry and Dave Smith. Sherry made a beef stew for lunch which was absolutely delicious, so much so that Tulley decided that was what he wanted to eat. I was so relieved that we finally found something that Tulley really enjoyed and ate readily. Mirk and I finished up our runs, both respectable runs but not good enough to finish in the ribbons. I wasn’t disappointed, Mirk did a great job. Tulley6

Truthfully I felt like we had already won when Tulley ravenously ate so much of Sherry’s stew. As we were packing and getting ready to go, we went to say goodbye to everyone and thank Sherry and Dave for their hospitality. Sherry handed me a large container full of the stew for Tulley.  Her kind gesture meant so much more than she could ever imagine, I couldn’t thank her enough. We headed back to our hotel to get some rest; we’d be heading home in the morning.

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I take Tulley to work with me as often as I can; he loves riding in the truck. There are always plenty of people wanting to feed him. Barb always makes sure she has lots of beef treats for him every time she walks into my office. On occasion Dr. Lagana will return from her lunch with a yummy cheeseburger and the bank drive-thru always keeps an adequate supply of biscuits on hand. He really enjoys being outside, getting some fresh air and playing a game of fetch. There are never a shortage of other dogs to play with and a fenced yard at the hospital so we go out as often as my time permits.  The hospital cats are also a form of amusement to Tulley; he’ll chase them whenever the opportunity presents itself. Of course I make every effort to deter that behavior.EchoTulley

Recently a package arrived in the mail for Tulley and he was thrilled—it was like Christmas morning! As I put the box on the floor Tulley hovered over it with anticipation. As I tore back the packaging tape and opened the top he promptly stuck his head into the box and promptly rooted through each item removing the contents one by one.  In the midst of his rummaging he found an awesome squeaky sock monkey, pulled it out of the box and promptly took off running into the living room, squeaking it all the while. We can’t thank Karen, Jim, Morgan and Wyatt enough for making Tulley’s day and ours as well. We cherish every moment.

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The weather this fall has been beautiful. Tulley enjoys spending the nice days outside with Ed while he clears the leaves, stacks wood, and prepares for winter. We delight in watching Tulley so carefree, jumping in a pile of leaves and bouncing around like a rabbit. He’s also always on guard making sure that the local herd deer stay off of his yard. Echo’s always nearby as well; she and Tulley are nearly inseparable. They truly are the, “cutest couple,”Tulley5

So for now we’ll continue to take it day by day and make sure that Tulley is enjoying each and every moment.

CHEMOTHERAPY

TULLEY’S FIRST TREATMENT

A week has passed since Tulley received his first chemo treatment and his response has been fair. The use of prednisolone has decreased the size of his lymph nodes. Overall he’s had a bit more kick in his step but that varies from day to day. He takes medication daily to ease his upset stomach and suppress vomiting, sadly its not 100% effective. His appetite is also remarkably decreased. He’s turned his nose up to eggs, liver, chicken and beef. Of all things he prefers peanut butter on sourdough bread. Currently I feel his condition is guarded.

My husband and I believe that the quality of his life is whats most important.

We’d like thank all of the staff at the Abington Veterinary Center for taking such good care of Tulley and all of you for keeping him in your thoughts and prayers.

Chemotherapy

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There are so few words, the diagnosis, Lymphoma. First chemotherapy treatment tomorrow. Please share any personal experiences. Updates to follow.

Here is Tulley’s rescue story.   https://bordercollieinquisitor.com/category/mean-dog/

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The Pack, Part 6

Home At Last

I received an email—Rich and Wendy were interested in adopting Scout. This would be the third Border collie they acquired from Ed and me over the course of 12 years. If anyone could handle her it was Rich and Wendy. They wanted her to come and spend some time with them, their two cats and Border collie, Willow.

That evening I’d have to prepare my husband. Continue reading

World Trial!

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The Moyer Menagerie, Part 4

The Fox and the Border Collie

By Terri Florentino

As time went on, Tillie’s social skills slowly evolved. She was more tolerant of people near to her; however if a stranger reached out to touch her, she’d back away and duck behind my legs. Even though she went with me to the training center daily, I thought that perhaps a foster home that offered extra one-on-one time might encourage more social advancement. She knew my parents, their home, and Dusty their goofy, good-natured golden retriever. I gave them a call, and they agreed warmly.

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We arrived at my parents’ home in the afternoon. I’d set a few hours set aside to help Tillie acclimate and explain to my parents what type of training she needed.

“It’ll take patience,” I said. “If we can get her to the point that she’ll allow people to approach and not duck and hide, that’ll be an achievement.”

“We have all the time in the world. Not to worry. We’ll take good care of her,” my Mom said, as we hugged goodbye.

The next morning after I’d finished with my first private training lesson I checked my voice mail. I heard my Mother’s voice, and she sounded concerned. “Tillie jumped over the fence and ran off behind house; she’s up on the ridge. I can see her, but she won’t come to me. Call me back as soon as you get this message.”

I immediately called back and told my Mom I was on my way. “Don’t try to catch her. Just keep an eye on her movement.”

An hour later I pulled into my parents’ driveway. My mom met me at the door, “I’m so sorry she flew over the fence. I had no time to stop her,” she said.

“It’s not your fault Mom. She’s like a feral cat. I suspect she’d been on her own for quite awhile before she ended up captured and surrendered to the shelter.”

I stuffed my pockets full of treats and headed up the mountainside. As I made my way along a deer path, I couldn’t see Tillie anywhere. I called to her over and over, but saw no sign of her. As I started to make my way up the steepest part of the ridge Tillie came bounding out of nowhere jumping up wagging her tail and barking. “Silly Tillie, where’ve you been?” I smiled. As I reached out to take a hold of her collar, she leapt back just out of my reach. “Oh, I see we’re playing, ‘catch me if you can.’” (A game I’m not at all fond of).

I sat down and made myself as comfortable as I could on a nearby rock. I reached into my pocket. “Tillie, look here! I have yummy treats.” I extended my hand. She stuck her nose in the air and moved toward me. I opened my hand to expose the now-melting piece of cheese. She leaned in just near enough to snatch it from my hand and scurry out of reach. I’d made no attempt to grab hold of her. I knew what she was up to. I’m smarter than she is, or so I thought. I

I figured I’d wait until she came back several more times. Once she let her guard down, I’d grab her. In theory this technique works rather well; reality proved different. An hour later, defeated, I walked back, leaving Tillie with a belly full of cheese and me with no dog on the end of the leash. Well, at the very least, I didn’t think she’d wander too far, and I knew she had eaten.

“No luck?” my mom said as I came back in the house without Tillie.

“Ms. Independent will have no part of it,” I quipped. “I’ll come back tomorrow and this time I’ll bring her best buddy Scout along. In the meantime please keep a bowl of food and water by the garage so if she comes down off the ridge she can find nourishment.

“I’ll do that, and keep an eye on her as well. Again, I’m so sorry,” my mom said.

“Don’t worry. We’ll get her, Mom. She’s a survivor.”

Late the following morning, Scout and I arrived back at my parents’ home. I had spent the first half of the morning baking real beef liver, and a lot of it, for today’s second round of ‘catch me if you can.’

“Tillie kept us up most of the night,” my mother said grinning mischievously. “And you’re not going to believe me when I tell you.”

“Tell me what?”

“First off, Tillie spent most of the night by the garage.”

“Really, how’d you know that?”

“She set off the sensor for the driveway lights all night long. It looked like a light show in our driveway,” she said. “Then, occasionally she’d bark, and as soon as I’d appear, she’d dash off. She kept this up all night.”

“I’m sorry, you must be exhausted,” I said feeling badly I had asked my parents to take Tillie in the first place.

“Oh, that’s not the half of it,” she said. “Follow me.”

We walked out onto the back deck of her home. “Be very quiet,” she said as she pointed to a specific area on the ridge. “Look right there by that rock wall.”

I couldn’t believe my eyes. There was Tillie lying on top of a large boulder while several young kits frolicked nearby. I watched for several minutes, then gestured for my mom to go back inside. Once in the house I turned to my Mom utterly amazed. “I can’t believe what I’m seeing. Where’s the vixen? I’m amazed she’s allowing Tillie to stay so close.”

The Fox and the Border Collie

“I thought the same thing,” my mom said. “I’ve been watching them most of the morning.”

“This should be interesting,” I said as I filled the treat pouch with the liver and called for Scout to come along.

“Pull up a chair on the back deck, Mom. This should be a good show.”

Scout and I made our way out the door and headed up the ridge towards Tillie and her newfound furry friends. Scout trotted several paces ahead; it didn’t take Tillie very long to join us. She wiggled, jumped, and circled excitedly all around Scout. They stopped to sniff noses, then Tillie took off running back towards the den of foxes. We followed her, but I thought it wise not to get too close to the den, so I found another rock and sat down. Tillie quickly made her way back to where Scout and I had settled. I picked up where I left off yesterday, handing out treats, holding them closer to me each time. Tillie was more comfortable coming close with Scout practically climbing into my lap to get the liver. As I doled out the bits of liver, I glanced off to my right and, peering over the rocks, were the tiny noses of the kits and two adult foxes staring in my direction. I felt uneasy and wondered if being downwind so close to the fox den with freshly baked liver was such a smart idea after all. How hungry were the foxes? Not wanting to get into an altercation with a vixen, I hurried the process along. One for Tillie, one for Scout, each time holding the treat closer and closer. Finally, as I gave another treat to Scout, I grabbed for Tillie’s collar. She lurched back and ran off, darn!

I started walking back to the house, hoping that Tillie might follow along with Scout, and thankfully she did. I paid little attention to her as Scout and I walked into my parents’ open garage, then into my Dad’s workshop that was attached to the garage. I started throwing bits of liver to the far corner in the workshop, and when Tillie trotted into the corner with Scout to eat up the bits of liver, I quickly closed the door. Finally, she was caught! I took a deep breath and let out a huge sigh of relief.

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Now, how to get her home?

The Pack, Part 5

 The Renegotiation

A couple of weeks had passed. Scout’s game, as I saw it, was to resource guard not only whatever she held in high value, (i.e. a plastic bag or paper towels of all things), but also space and certain people. She knew exactly how to get whatever she wanted. And yet, she could be the most affectionate and lovable pup, as long as it was on her terms. We needed to renegotiate those terms.

As time went on we’d made some progress. Now, in lieu of biting, she’ll give up whatever’s in her mouth with only a brief display of her teeth. Ideally my goal is “no lip” from the little lady. Along with Mirk and Echo she would come to my office with me. The privilege of being able to hang out in the office was immediately revoked as soon as she started inappropriately chewing or rooting through the trash. While I’m working on financials, I don’t appreciate a game of tug o’ war for a banana peel. Continue reading

The Moyer Menagerie, Part 3

Just Like A Feral Cat

By Terri Florentino

It was evening by the time Tillie and I pulled into my driveway. I would introduce my pack one at a time after Tillie and I had some time alone to take a walk and get better acquainted. I opened the back of my truck to find the little pup cowered in the back of the crate, trembling so badly her teeth were chattering. I wasn’t sure if she might react fearfully and attempt to bite, so I moved slowly as I reached into the crate. She continued to quiver as I clipped the leash onto her collar as she turned into a tiny ball in an attempt to make herself as small as possible. I couldn’t recall ever dealing with a dog that was as petrified as this little girl. It was a good thing I had a secure hold on the leash, as I picked her up out of the crate and gently placed her on the ground she immediately defaulted to her flight drive and attempted to scurry away. Her social skills, at best, were similar to that of a feral cat. I attached a 30ft line to her collar hoping some distance between the two of us might help her to relax and feel less threatened. There was almost never any tension on the line, 30ft wasn’t even enough to take off the edge. I decided to let my dog Scout out for a meet and greet. He was such a gentle soul, I Continue reading